Nylon Magazine writer, Meghan Nesmith, wrote an inspiring article about the art of aloneness.
If you read the article here  you can get a brief summary.

In the article, she makes great points about the difference between aloneness and loneliness. Many times people confuse the two. Aloneness is the ability to enjoy your own company without others. For example going to a movie or eating at a restaurant by yourself. Loneliness is wanting to connect with others but not being able to do so.
As we get older we lose touch with our friends. They go off, get married and start a family. The art of aloneness is enjoying your own company.

I personally enjoy my alone time. I also enjoy the company of others. I have been known to go out to brunch by myself. As I get older the less I seek out friends. I have been told that the older you get the more comfortable you are in your own skin. I hope that is true.

My advice is to go out there and try things by yourself. Wear headphones the first couple of times, if you're really nervous, After awhile you'll walk out by yourself, glowing and independent!

What do you think? Leave a comment below.

End of the Day Poem

Just a simple poem. Hope you guys are enjoying
your week!

Famous Stoner Quotes

Man is the universe within' himself

--Bob Morley

But what we can do, as flawed we are, is still see God in other people, and do our best to help them find their own grace. That's what I strive to do, that is what I pray to do every day.

--President Barack Obama

If you don't live your life then who will?

--Rihanna

If I'm free, it's because I'm always running.

--Jimi Hendrix 

Technology is nothing. What's important is that you have faith in people, that they're basically good and smart, and if you give them tools, they'll do wonderful things with them.

--Steve Jobs

Frédéric Bazille; The Young Artist

Frédéric Bazille was an impressionist painter.  While listening to a Yale podcast, I was turned on to Bazille's work. Bazille  was a young man when he decided to start painting in his early twenties. His parents didn't completely agree with Bazille decision. They allowed him to paint only if he studied medicine. 

Bazille was brilliant, but not as a doctor. He failed his medical exams and later focused on painting. 
This failure allowed Bazille to create memorizing artwork. He was immersed in the art world. His friends were some of the great impressionist at the time, and by being around them he developed his artistic style. 

I image Bazille  as a young man trying to find his calling. He was torn between the approval of his parents and his passion for painting. Painters are often depicted as a frou-frou, with a tiny mustache, standing in a park  painting a sunset. Bazille was a brave, and talented artist. Every artist knows that art has a higher purpose.  It is symbolic, a representation of the times and culture. 

Bazille later joined the army during the Prussian war. It is believed that he was discouraged from his past failures, joining an army seemed like the call to glory. He sadly died while serving. 

Bazille was searching, like many of us, for prestige. He had the talent but his time was cut short.

Who is your favorite artist? Leave a comment below.

3 Common Misconceptions About Pins

 I was recently out shopping and I came across the cutest assortment of pins.
When I was in middle school it was trendy to wear pins on your backpack and lunchbox.
I was surprised to see it but excited! The pins can range from political to funny, cutesy to
crude. The best pins are available on Etsy.

Listed below are 3 Common Misconceptions About Pins

1. There for Kids
Heck no! It's for everyone!

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2. There for Punk/Emo/Rock and Roll Types
There are many designs from your favorite band to
a silly quote. Pin are an accessory and can be tailored
to any style.

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3. They Are Difficult to Wear Everyday
It is an extension of your outfit. It can become
a part of your everyday wardrobe if you style it
correctly.

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Try new things. Don't be like Stoop Kid.

Remeber to check out the Etsy shops listed in the captions. 

What do you think of pins? Leave a comment below....

Modern Day Dating: Beard or No Beard

If you have looked around recently you've probably noticed
guys rocking their facial hair. Back then, it was good hygiene for men to
be clean shaven and neat.


A new era of men have beards and tattoos. (so sexy)
They have short stubble to the longest of lumberjack 
beards. A quick  Google search of  "why beards?" reveals that,

 the transition from a boy to a man beards are natural androgenic hair.



I am very attracted to guys with beards. I don't
know why but I'll blame genetics.

I prefer to date a guy with a beard but it's not a definite factor.

Below I have listed personal reasons I like beards

1. It's so manly-looking

2. You can stroke it (beard!)

3. You can decorate it (flowers..)

4.It's good for your immune system

5. Nature intended it!

What do you think about beards? Leave it in the comment section below.

Life Lessons Learned in 25 Years

It was December 2016,
when I turned 25 years old. Scientifically I am no longer an adolescent.
 What you see is what you get I guess.

At this point I won't get any taller, my boobs won't
grow any bigger. This is it!

I remember the days when I was a teenager. I craved
for acceptance. The other kids didn't like me because I was a teacher's
pet. a know it all.

Back then black girls weren't expected to be smart.
I had the worst time with guys. They never paid any attention to
me AND I was forbidden to date.

When I left for college I was sure thing would change.
I still had a lot of my insecurities and aversion to dating.

College was a crazy roller coaster.
Friends came and went I moved out my parents house.
I fell in love and just as quickly had my heart broken.

In My 25 Years I Learned This.

1. Speak Up
      If something doesn't feel right or makes you uncomfortable.
      Speak Up let your opinion be heard!
2. The Only Constant is Change
3. Move Around!
      It doesn't make sense to stay in one city!
4. Set a Clear Career/Financial Path
5. Love

Do you agree? Leave a comment below.

A Brief History of Spas

A spa is a place where you go and relax.
 A good spa experience melts away your tension and stress.
But if you're curious like me you're probably wondering, why do we have spas?
Spas were a place people gathered and socialized. Before the great

advancements of the Romans the spa experience were often near hot springs.
During the time of Rome, the spa experience greatly advanced.
The Romans used sophisticated piping and heating of water to improve the experience.

The Spas were a social place, people would swim, and
bathe. It wasn't uncommon to pick up a date because men and women shared the spa.

Today hospitality and wellness is a rapidly expanding profession. The hospitality industry employs people from all over the world and provides an unforgettable experience.

So now that you know a little about spas, do you think you'll check one out this summer? Which one? Leave it i the comments below.